Hey, if celebs can keep coming out of retirement, why can't I? (Read post below) Sure, I'm no Lance Armstrong, but don't we all deserve a chance to change our minds? I've had a REALLY tough time not having an audience for my Pop Culture obsession. John can only take so much of my rants and raves. So, without further delay, here's the 36th edition of Thursday Dish.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Jude's Thursday Dish #36
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Okay, I have no will power
That didn't take long. Screw being well-rounded! I JUST talked to my cousin Amy literally an hour and a half ago about how nice it is not being tied to my blog and all the time I've been wasting on it -- and blog stalking everyone else. But truth be told, I really miss it. And if anything is going to bring me back out of retirement, it's the King of Pop dying. How can I NOT blog about that?! So, I'm officially back. Stay tuned for the resurrection of Jude's Thursday Dish.
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Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Goodbye, Sweet Blog
Well, it's time. As much fun as blogging has been, it's time for it to retire. The main reason, my life is WAY too insane. But the other reason, I wrote about in my upcoming May editor letter. Here is a sneak peek of the rough draft. NOTE: I am by NO means judging anyone, this is just my opinion for myself. Thanks to my "fans" -- and if you want to catch up or get my Dish opinions, call me or let's do lunch! :)
Editor Letter – May 09
For the Love of Blog
By Judy Hut
My daughter thinks my hobby is the computer. That’s what she told her teacher in an interview about me. When I asked her why she said that, she simply answered, “You eat, sleep and work on the computer.” Ouch. I always thought I was much more well-rounded, but she may be right.
Since I work from home, my laptop is never far from me. I try to get most of my work done during work hours, but I sometimes work on the evenings and weekends. I wish I could say all my computer time is work-related, but it’s not. I Google, I.M., email, shop online, text, download music and Facebook. I try to keep up on my blog and when I’m not doing mine, I’ll blog-stalk others. My only hold-out is Twitter. I really don’t need one more thing to add to the list.
My daughter’s observation got me thinking. Is a mom on her computer all day my generation’s version of the stereotypical mother who watches soaps and eats Bon Bons? Even though my tube of choice is a computer and not the TV, does all the time I spend still make me a couch potato? And the most importantly, am I wasting my time?
Oh, I can justify my computer use to make myself feel better. First, I’m a writer. The Internet is another outlet for me to express myself, right? Blogging is my online journal. It’s better than snail mail to send messages and pictures to my distant family and friends. Second, it’s my way to connect. I don’t have a lot of time to meet friends for lunch or spend hours on the phone. Instead, connecting online is a fast, convenient way to keep up my social life. I started hearing more about what my nieces and nephews are doing once I signed up for Facebook.
Are these really justifications or just excuses? There is so much attention put on how much time kids spend on the computer, but maybe it’s time for mom to evaluate the way she spends her free time too. Techno-savvy moms are complemented for keeping up with the changing times, but there’s a growing problem of moms getting addicted to the Internet and withdrawing from the real world. Some mothers may feel like they are above such things and that Internet addiction is reserved for teens or the socially challenged. Yet, more and more reports are showing that women are suffering from the same addiction.
Ironically, I Googled “are you addicted to the Internet?” and found several online quizzes, some serious and some not, to see if I was truly an Internet Addict. It came no surprise to me that (by their consensus) I am. The question I thought was most poignant was “do you have more friends in real life or online?” By my current 239 friend count on Facebook, the answer is probably online. If their definition of friend is people I keep in touch with frequently, then it is DEFINITELY online. I definitely don’t get together with that many people regularly. I’ve always been very social, but in my 30’s, a lot of friendships have fallen by the wayside thanks to my ever-growing family commitments. That’s understandable, but the more I think about it, I definitely don’t want my social circle to be limited to the World Wide Web.
It’s time for me to cut back. I could never go cold turkey. Nor would I want to. I’m going to start by -- dare I write this, giving up my blog. I don’t want to find out how my friends are doing solely online. Reading up on their lives via RSS feed shouldn’t be a substitute. I am missing out on real face-to-face interaction and relationships. I’m going to make a more concerted effort to make plans with my friends, reconnect in person with those from my past and attend more neighborhood and church functions to meet new people. I’m taking baby steps until I fully realize that life I envision for myself and then, hopefully, I will be well-rounded after all.
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Thursday, April 9, 2009
Jude's Thursday Dish
We are in the process of remodeling our bathroom and our living arrangements are split between our house and John's mom's home while we work on it. Her house is empty and in the process of being ready to put on the market, therefore; I don't have Internet up there! Of course, we did bring up a TV and hook it up to the cable, so I'm not completely in the dark. But, I'm feeling very discombobulated and I don't like it one bit! Very grateful though for the use of her house and VERY excited for the new bathroom! Anyway, on to Dish!
So what if Britney Spears walked off stage during a concert? Does that really need to be all over the TV and radio?
I am SO sick of all seeing plastic surgery stories. Except I do have to say this picture is pretty bad. That's Daryl Hannah and not the Tiger Lady (or Ron Pearlman). Why can't people just grow old gracefully?
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Sunday, April 5, 2009
Kate the Great is 8 (and this is late!)
I'm such the poet. Well, my Baby Girl turned 8 on Friday. I can't believe she's that grown-up! There's a lot of change for her since she's officially a "tween". No more car seat, getting baptized, starting Activity Days, she'll start fasting, starting piano lessons and soccer. We could've started the latter before she was 8 and all, but we finally got a keyboard and found the opportunity for her to play soccer. Anyway, she's thrilled by it all.




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Thursday, April 2, 2009
Jude's Thursday Dish (as if I write anything else lately)
I survived the last couple weeks of my life and for that, I'm very grateful. The first week of April is always insane at the Hut house with my birthday on the 1st and Katie's on the 3rd. With the celebrations, Katie's party, etc. and then we go into Conference Weekend that holds more get-togethers, it's non-stop. And tomorrow, I've got the Highland Park Elementary Arts Night that I'm on the Silent Auction committee. I think by Monday, I'm going to crawl into bed for a mental health day! Enough of all that, on to Dish!

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Friday, March 27, 2009
Jude's Thursday Dish
So, here's some cold Dish for you. Yesterday, our largest issue of the year went to press. I worked twice my hours last month working on it. Everything around me is in shambles, but hey... it's going to be a great issue! So if you see it, pick it up, so I feel like all my hard work went to something (other than just paying our bills).
Since I'm SICK of being on the computer and I need to get back to my life, here's just some quick LUNCH RUSH bits to tide us over.
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Thursday, March 19, 2009
Jude's Thursday Dish
I'm trying to get to this first thing this morning, because I have a full day ahead. So, on to Dish!
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Monday, March 16, 2009
Winter, are we through?
Middle of March and I've been ready for spring since February 15th. The snow on my lawn has FINALLY melted. My house faces north, so it takes forever for my lawn to de-thaw. The sunshine is more than welcome for my S.A.D. soul. So to usher in what I hope is the end of the snow and even though spring doesn't officially start until Wednesday, I wanted to post some pictures of our winter and be done with it!
Disclaimer: Yes, there are no pictures of me... on purpose. Not until I lose some of this winter fat and all the fat from seasons prior!
Katie had two 2nd grade programs. This was the "Friendship Program" with the kids doing the "Friendship Rap".
Our 2nd annual "Snow Day" trip up to Heber. We go to John's stepdad's cabin in Heber, sleep-over and the next day, we ride the tractor and pull the homemade sled around the backyard. Here's John driving with my nephew, James. Katie and Ethan love to hang on the back of the sled and play "Indiana Jones" while they're dragged around the yard. Lots of fun, but the snow clothes get filthy!Posted by Jude at 8:43 AM 2 comments
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Jude's Thursday Dish
Since all my blog postings are called "Jude's Thursday Dish" lately, I'm wondering if I need to tack on a subtitle or even an episode number like "Jude's Thursday Dish #40" or something. Or a subtitle could be "Jude's Thursday Dish - yes, all she talks about is Lost." Hmmm? Any thoughts?
I only have time for one entry today, so here we go...
1. I've been thinking about this for days and I don't really know where to begin. How can I not dish about the "Big Love" controversy? Yes, I'm going there. Not all of my friends have the same beliefs as I do, but I know they all respect my opinion and don't mind if I go off on church stuff once in a while. :) As you know, I'm a little more liberal about my entertainment than more conservative members of my religion. I fully respect people's right for their freedom of speech, but I'm completely offended by HBO's choice to depict a temple marriage on TV. Just because you have the freedom to DO something, doesn't mean you should. There's something to be said about creating entertainment that's sensitive to its audience. Yes, Mormons watch "Big Love" and Mormons watch "HBO"; we are their audience. Clearly, even though they cite it's important to their plot, they know depicting a sacred temple ordinance would be offensive to active LDS members. It's for certain embittered ex-Mormons are the people advising them in this subject and it's really disappointing they have such little regard for such sensitive matters. I like this quote: “The rituals and the teachings that take place in those we consider to be sacred and not appropriate for public view,” says BYU Associate Dean of Religion Kent Jackson. “Latter-day Saints will find this very disheartening that something like this is taking place.” Jackson says this shows an insensitivity to sacred things. “Good people honor other people’s sense of the sacred.” We're not the only religion, or group for that matter, that holds things sacred. It shows such little regard and tolerance for those of any faith to exploit their beliefs or rituals. Taken out of context, these things give us further reason to be misunderstood. I've been really impressed by the Church's PR department and how they've handled it. Their statements have been really articulate and thought out. I also admire their Christlike attitude of not calling on a ban to HBO or bringing more attention to it. It just goes to show you how "peculiar" we really are. Being"peculiar" used to allude to "oh, they're kind of different", but as the world is getting more and more divided in their beliefs, being "peculiar" is becoming truer to its real definition:
1. Unusual or eccentric; odd.
2. Distinct from all others.
3. Belonging distinctively or primarily to one person, group, or kind; special or unique.
Anyway, the whole thing really disappoints me. I'm not in the group of banning HBO or their programs, mainly because I don't HAVE HBO and all I do is watch "Sex and the City" reruns on TBS. It's probably going to bum these banners out when they realize Tom Hanks produces "Big Love" so if you're going to ban anyone involved in the show, does that mean you have to ban everyone's favorite "Should be a Mormon" actor?
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